In life, there are countless first times. This also applies to sexuality. In the series “My first time”, the women describe their first time: a kiss with a person of the same sex, a threesome, cheating or sex under the influence. Linda (37) works as a freelance writer for Adam and Eve magazine and recounts her first sexual experience with a man and a sex toy.

Although people often think that vibrators and other sex toys are only suitable for solo sex, I like to refute this idea. Of course, a vibrator is a wonderful solution for being penetrated and stimulated when you’re single and don’t want a bedside table. But sex toys aren’t just for singles and don’t have to be used in secret without your partner knowing. A toy for one person can very well be used by two people. There are also more and more special toys for couples on the market. We’ll talk about that later.
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I already introduced you to Robin in my article in which I talk about my first infidelity . Since we were still teenagers when we met, we experimented regularly. So when I got my first vibrator, he was the one who, like me, was extremely curious about it. The first time I showed him the vibrator, he was a bit intimidated by its size, but he was quickly enthusiastic. It was an extraordinary experience: he was on his knees and fully clothed between my legs, while I was lying naked and most vulnerable on the bed. With a little lube , he pushed that nice big vibrator further and further.
I don’t know which of us was more excited about this show. I enjoyed the size and vibrations of the vibrator, but at least as much the dominance of Robin, who held all the strings in his hands. At the same time, he found it super exciting to see this thing disappear inside me and spoil me in this way. As we repeated it several times and also with other toys, I can say that it was a great success. Sending movies or voice messages while masturbating with such a toy is also an exciting way to excite the other. Making love with a man and a Sex Toys India at the same time: I find that it enriches my sex life.

Using a toy with your partner can be a bit awkward, but you can always try. You might discover a whole new world, or you might discover that it’s not for you. In my opinion, these are the advantages:

You enjoy different sensations
A vibrator doesn’t feel the same as a penis. And it’s good. Just like the cock ring , sex is different for him (and for you too if he’s vibrating).

When he penetrates you with a vibrator, you have every chance of spoiling his penis with your mouth or your hands. It’s a win-win for both!

It’s exciting and stimulating to discover something new together. Sex with a man and a sex toy is a fun way to spice up your sex life. Maybe you like it and can do it more often. You also might not like it at all, but at least you have a nice toy to use solo.

Amazing, but true: Research shows that couples who use sex toys together communicate better. Couples are more willing to tell each other what they like and where their pain points lie. Similarly, couples who use sex toys together have an easier time talking about sex than couples who don’t.

Like many men – but not all! – You know, most women don’t have an orgasm when they are penetrated alone. Therefore, clitoral stimulation is always a good idea: whether he does it or you do it, with fingers or a toy. For example, choose crazy Womanizer Liberty or Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation vibrators . They are air vibrators that give you a delicious and intense orgasm thanks to the pressure of the air. Useful positions are missionary with a pillow under the buttocks, where the man remains standing with the upper body, or doggy style.

In fact, you can use almost any sex toy together. Whether it’s a toy specially designed for couples or a simple toy for solo use: it doesn’t really matter.

A duo vibrator can be used by heterosexual couples. The vibrator has a kind of flat C shape and is worn by the woman. At both ends is a motor. The smaller part is inserted into the vagina and stimulates the G-spot. The thicker part contains the command and vibrates against the clitoris. The special thing about this vibrator is that your partner can penetrate you while you are wearing the toy. In this way, it also benefits from the vibrations.
We-Vibe was the first to introduce this type of duo vibrator to the market. Popular is for example the Unite initiative . The Double Joy torque vibrator works the same way. It also has an app with which you can control the vibrator.

We have already mentioned it: the vibrating penis ring . It is a ring made of a flexible material like silicone, which you slide around your penis when it is half flaccid. Your partner’s erection stays longer and is firmer, which is pleasurable for both of you. A vibrating cock ring also has a bullet vibrator that can stimulate your clitoris. A good position is the sidesaddle, the one where you sit on your partner.